Keeping it cool... I guess

There are times when no matter how much I love the person, I'd always make it to the point to hurt them. I have no control... and I don't have the will power to control it. Would "I'm only human" be a good excuse? That shit's been worn out. I guess putting it this way would be better:

" I'm only human and I also need love and understanding"

For whatever it means..